工作狂
我想我的性格里工作狂占据了很大一部分。可能是对知识的饥渴吧，每次坐在电脑前都两眼发直，对周围的东西反应要迟钝很多。经常别人喊我两三遍我都没反应。这应该是始于用google reader来学习知识的那会儿。现在上班了也继续了这个习惯，做事情到很晚忘记了时间。周末的时候也爱去公司加班（最近我才从元则那里知道周末加班可以调休的 lol）。
网页设计已经成了我生命中不可缺少的一部分，每次看到好的设计都激动不已。自己为了这个博客也是不眠不休，老是像个木头人。也牺牲了很多陪伴家人的时间。最近在twitter上看到叶凯工友发的推：love what you do and do what you love，深有同感。不过又想回来，自己也的确忽略了很多应该重视的东西。
算笔账
一周七天，平均每天工作12小时、睡觉8小时、回家之后继续对着电脑干活2小时。每天和女朋友直接相处的时间居然不超过2小时，交谈更不超过20句（除非睡前聊会儿天）。一般她喊我三四声，我才从屏幕前扭过头来。what a fucker!
工作占据了生活的绝对重心，但生活毕竟是生活。我若停下设计会觉得空虚，失去家人则无法想象，不敢想象。
怎么样更好地平衡家人和工作，我想这是值得每个具有工作狂气质的人思考的问题。但首先从一点开始做起：love what you do, love your family more。这绝对是个世界级难题。我所认识的人中，还没有把它解决得很好的。我应该向大伯学习，他很好地抵挡了我用台球对他的勾引，回家陪女友，很好！
L
03/27/2010, 15:27
好吧我评论了，what a fucker!
ccccac
03/28/2010, 19:28
网也不错 就是把留言框里输入字的颜色换一下 要不就把留言框背景换一下 都看不清楚
shimu
03/28/2010, 21:19
@ccccac – 谢谢建议～网站还在继续完善中。你的意思是输入字的颜色更亮一些么？或者背景更深一些？
les
03/30/2010, 17:10
1 suggestion is that do not “require” someone’s email in the comment page, If I didn’t know u, I might be thinkin the trade-off between leaking my personal information and leavin a “suggestion” or showin some interest. so this might end up losing comments.
tho I could understand the idea of askin for email is that you might “send” news report or just communicate with the people u are interested in, however this would still sometimes annoy people if they say “uninvited” emails jack up in the inbox
so what I suggest is that on the main page, add a “subscribe” icon, so that whoever is interested in ur site, n wish to receive any lately movement of it would actually subscribe it, and which will make ur updates redirected to their email under their authorization.
1 more thin to say is that there is a fatal mistake(tho it is a really small spelling error) in “http://www.shimuuu.com/#contact”, what made me usin that “harsh” word is that this goof here gives people a impression that u r not professionalism and lack of attention to details(even tho u r not a native eng speaker) which may lead them to think that you are not reliable thus .. u loose u potential “employers”
despite the above, u site looks terrific XD
les
03/30/2010, 17:16
@L –
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les
03/30/2010, 17:18
well if this post made any wrongful judgment I would like the almighty to erase it out -,-
shimu
03/30/2010, 20:06
@les – 哈哈，没事儿～下次增加一个可以编辑自己评论的功能～